The Path You Take

… says a lot about the way you learn in life.

In fact, the path you take reflects where you are on your life’s journey.

There are always 2 paths — destiny and fate. Destiny is choosing the most optimal path. Fate is defaulting to the least optimal path. Both paths lead you home, but they take very different routes.

The path we take is the degree of difficulty we require to learn. Some of us need hardship to learn lessons and others can learn and integrate more easily.

Destiny is the most optimal path for your growth. You still have lessons and tests, but they are easier to move through because one has reached a healthy level of consciousness growth and evolution.

Fate is the defaulted path where the tests are harder. This is not a punishment to who you are, this is a pre-requisite to your consciousness growth.

Both paths lead you home. They lead you along your life’s journey. Why are some paths harder? Some souls need harder experiences before they learn. It is up to the soul as to how they learn best.

How do you learn best? Do you learn from difficulty or ease? One isn’t better than the other, it just takes what it takes for us each to learn.

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Your Progress is Not Contingent on How Unhealed People Treat You

… it’s contingent on how you react to their treatment.

In life, we can never take the “impersonal, personal.” How people treat you has more to do with who they are/what they are going through then it has anything to do with you.

You are not responsible for changing people, you are responsible for changing yourself.

If an unhealed person lashes out at you, that is on them; it’s their work to resolve within themself. If you allow that unhealed person to trigger you, then that is on you. Your work is to find out why their inadequacies trigger your insecurities.

We are all mirrors to each other. We reflect back to each other aspects of ourselves we may not be aware of.

It’s easy to blame unhealed people for your trauma; it’s not as easy to recognize a trauma response within ourselves. Unhealed people have work to do, and if you’re triggered by an unhealed person, you have even more work to do.

We are here to evolve and to progress through this matrix. Don’t get tripped up by an unhealed being. Not everyone wants to grow. Remember that your progress is never contingent on how unhealed people treat you; it is only contingent on how you react to them. Resolving your need to react is the key to evolution.

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Our Greatest Human Economy is our Soul

… not our bank accounts, not our investments and not our assets.

But no one ever teaches us that. We get lost in this matrix of materialism and we forget who we really are and what we’re here to do. 

As a result, our focus becomes fixated on:

Making $$$ versus making spiritual progress.

Working to make a living, versus living your life’s work.

Collecting possesions versus living more simply.

Demanding praise versus offering gratitude.

Climbing the corporate ladder versus ascending into higher levels of consciousness.

Being right versus doing the right thing. 

Being selfish and fearful of losing $$$ versus being selfless and giving charitably. 

Virtue signaling versus being virtuous. 

We have forgotten the essence of humanity the hue of man – the light of man and we traded it in for a false sense of security. Our soul knows. Our soul holds the codes of our ascension into higher realms. Our soul is here to lead us home, but it gets buried under the promise of material wealth. Wealth is fleeting, and it doesn’t compare to the value of the wealth of the soul. The healthier your soul, the more powerful your human journey.

Our greatest economy is our soul. It is the card that quite literally gets us “out of jail free.” Are you thriving in your highest economy or are you relying on the welfare state outside you to evolve? The journey always starts within. 

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Happiness is Not a Place You Get To

… it’s a place you cultivate within yourself. 

The mistake humanity makes is in thinking that happiness can ever be found outside you. The material world is fleeting. $$$, jobs, homes, cars, bonuses, reputations all have an expiration date. You can’t take them with you when your time is up. They are not a measure of your true success so they can never truly create lasting happiness. 

Happiness is a state of mind. It’s a divine connection to source — something greater that created this universe. It’s in the trust that your soul is your greatest economy — that who you are is much greater than who this sick society tells you that you are. 

When the world tries to tear you down and tell you that you’re a failure, can you stand up and say, I love who i am and I love the life i’ve created for myself? True happiness is an inside job. Those who do not love themselves will never be able to find it. If you’re still only seeking happiness in the material world, you’ll forever be lost in the seas of depression. 

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If You’re Still Hating on Others

… you’re not healed.

Even if you think you are.

We only know who we are in relationship to another person, so our relationships are our greatest acid test for the consciousness we are holding.

If someone is able to trigger you into an emotional response, you are not resolved within yourself. Everyone has their own buttons, but if you allow someone else to push those buttons and it creates a reactance of anger and hate within you, that work is on YOU. Don’t spend your energy hating on that person for triggering you, ask yourself why you got triggered? Why does that person make you angry? What about them is triggering for you? That is what needs to be looked at. Blaming them for your anger is misdirected energy and it only keeps you stuck in your own unconscious and distorted mindset.

Hate and anger is a dead give-away for a soul who is still unhealed. A conscious and healed being doesn’t need to react with hate and anger, they’re able to tap into the higher realms of compassion and empathy for those for whom they may disagree with.

Hate is too heavy a burden to carry. If you hold hate for anyone in your life, you’ll never be free. You will forever be bound to that person because you were unable to resolve the hatred you hold in your heart. And that hatred is a venom that will only poison your soul. Life is too short to be buried under your own hate. The opportunity is now to find your own healing so your healing can inspire the healing of our planet. Are you ready to heal?

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Humans Are Not Predisposed to Hate

… they’re conditioned to hate by a sick society.

When you believe that your neighbor is your enemy, you have lost your humanity. 

Our DNA — our divine human blueprint is made of love. It’s only when that blueprint is hacked that we fall prey to hate. Our minds are being hacked all day long, by legacy media, social media, corporations, advertising, television, hollywood, govt’s, etc… What thoughts do we own that are actually OUR OWN? 

We are in a time where we are meant to be remembering who we really are but unfortunately at the same time, we’re battling for our own memory and our own ability to process concepts and think for ourselves.

If you’re judging others for who they are or what they believe, it might be time for you to point that finger back at yourself. If you are finding discontent in another, it’s really the discontent you harbor deep within yourself. Don’t project it onto others. Heal it at the source. The buck starts and stops with YOU.

Humans are not predisposed to hate, when we can remember that, we can find our way back to our our humanity. 

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Are You Comfortable?

… or have you become comfortably numb? 

There’s a difference.

Life is hard, it’s true, but finding comfort in this discomfort is key. True comfort can be found via conscious transformation of suffering. Do you allow yourself to wallow in self-pity and victim consciousness or do you move through the pain and back into higher mastery states of joy, gratitude and happiness?

Many of us get stuck in the pain and in order to cope, we shut down any sense of feeling. We numb ourselves from feeling the pain via alcohol, drugs, food, tv, social media, sex, etc… This is not true comfort, it is a coping mechanism disguised as comfort, otherwise known as the “comfortably numb zone.”

Comfort is the pure mastery of joy, while being comfortably numb is the epitome of sabotage and distraction. One shuts you down, while the other moves you through your consciousness evolution. Be careful not to mistake one for the other.

True comfort is available for anyone who is ready to master their pain — anyone who is ready to face their shadows and move beyond them. Once you learn to face all of it, you can override it and finally begin to heal.

Are you comfortable facing your life or are you more comfortably numbing the pain? There is a difference. One road leads to consciousness mastery and the other leads to an addictive spiral. Where do you find yourself?

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Warriors and Worriers

… are opposite sides of the same coin.

These are difficult times where it’s very easy to fall into fear and allow it to destroy us. But that doesn’t serve anyone. We’re not here to be enslaved by our fears; we are here to champion our dreams.

It helps to know that humans exist in a state of duality where we need to experience both positive and negative polarity in order to find our way in life. There are only 2 directions — light/love and dark/fear and fear has a purpose, it exists as a necessary state of resistance meant to drive us back towards the higher frequency of love. In other words, fear is a vibrational default that keeps us from collapsing into a sinkhole. We come up to it, experience it and we’re meant to re-direct ourselves away from it and back into the light.

But many of us get caught in that sinkhole and collapse into a pit of darkness because we think we have no other choice. But there is always a choice. We can either choose to feed the fear and become worriers or we can choose to run towards love and become warriors.

Warriors ascend in consciousness whereas worriers descend into fear.

Warriors don’t give up whereas worriers give in to the fear, pressure and pain.

Warriors focus on realizing their dreams whereas worriers let their greatest fears run their life.

Warriors find a way to conquer any obstacle in their way whereas worriers give their power over at the first sign of distress. 

Warriors don’t take no for an answer whereas worriers accept less than they deserve.

Warriors find a way to make their lives better whereas worriers decide it can never get better.

In life, it never matters what happens to you, all that matters is what you do with it. Are you a warrior or a worrier? Life never gets better as a worrier, it only gets worse. Sadness and despair can only beget more of the same. Where are you going in life? Warriors go places whereas worriers can only go into a downward spiral. No more excuses, it’s time to step into the role of warrior. The rest of your life depends on it.

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When You Are Alone

… you can see where you are. 

When you are surrounded by others, your view is blocked. 

I used to think I knew who I was and how I fit into the whole when I lived in NYC, but in reality, I couldn’t see anything. 

When you are alone, you have clear sight. But when you are surrounded by others, your view becomes muddied. It’s muddied because you only see yourself as a reflection of someone else. You do not have true clarity. True clarity only comes when you only see you. Anyone else around you is just a distraction from you knowing yourself. 

Most of us never know who we truly are. We are too busy competing with others around us (on social media) trying to prove to ourselves that we are better than them. But when you are constantly comparing yourself to those around you, you lose a bit of yourself. You turn that energy over to others and no longer have access to it. You give them your power. And why would you do that? Why would you not keep the integrity of your own power?

People can become distractions, albeit beautiful distractions, to us finding our way in the world. If you truly want to know yourself, step away from the crowd. You are not them. You will just get swallowed up and lost in that crowd.

Being alone is a chance to re-align yourself to who you truly are. When you no longer have the distractions of others, you can better see where you are headed.

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There Are No Mistakes in Life

… there are only different experiences.

Bet you didn’t know that? 

Many of us labor over making decisions for fear of making a mistake. But that’s the problem. We think it’s safer to sit it out and wait for clarity, but it’s not. Hesitation breeds stagnancy and decision breeds flow. So, it almost doesn’t matter what decisions you make, it just matters that you make them and continue to move through your life.

There are no guarantees in life, there are only varied experiences. You are meant to flow through a series of experiences and garner the wisdom from them. Those experiences are what make you who you are. The process of choosing is the process of life and the act of choosing requires a process of flow.

This process of flow requires you to move. Momentum is the key. Once you are in action, the universe can steer you towards the outcome that is aligned for you, but if you sit it out on the bench, you become inert and stuck/stagnant so change can never come in. Everyone needs to flow; if you sit still, you block your progress by blocking the process.

It helps to know that it doesn’t matter what path you choose, all that matters is that you get onto one. Once in motion, the universe can guide you towards your highest timeline. But you must be in motion. The only thing the universe cannot do is pull you up off your bench; it cannot intervene in your free will.

You gotta be in it to win it. It never matters what choices you make, all that matters is that you make choices and move through the game of your life. There are no mistakes, only different experiences. Are you flowing through your life and moving through your experiences or are you blocking your own progress?

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