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… don’t back away from them.

Why doesn’t anyone ever teach us that in kindergarten? It’s really a quantum computation. If you lean into a pressurized field, you can puncture that field and move through it. But no one ever teaches us that. The energy fields that surround us create our reality and the ways in which we manipulate those fields determine the outcomes we receive. 
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If you stand up to the difficulties, you will transmute them into the next level of progress. But if you step back from them (so they don’t hurt as much), you will encourage resistance amongst the difficulties and therefore things will get progressively more challenging for you. 
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It’s like being in a pool. If you’re going down, it’s better to go ALL THE WAY DOWN and HIT ROCK BOTTOM because when you do, you spring off of it and come up to the light of day much quicker. But if you don’t want to hit rock bottom, and try to avoid it, you will be hanging around the dark murky depths of the pool for a very long time living a much darker reality. Which do you prefer? 
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The secret to life is to lean into the challenges, not step back from them. We’re here to move through levels of HUMAN PROGRESS and the more levels you face, the more you will get through and the higher your rewards. Ready to play? 

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… you have to go through it.

But no one wants to go through pain to transcend it. As humans, we prefer to bypass the pain and take the easy way out. Ironically though, the easy way out in life is never easier; it’s actually much harder. It may feel easier at the onset, but it becomes far more complex and painful as time goes on.

There is no way to transcend something painful without fully going into it. You have to get into the belly of the beast in order to invert it. Many who do not want to hit rock bottom will linger in the shadows of the dark end of the pool for decades, trying to avoid their fate. The brave of us know that to come back up into the light, we have to first bottom out; we have to hit rock bottom so we can spring off of it and rise to the surface even faster.

As humans, we are all here to transcend our lives, not collapse into them. But we will never transcend what we will not allow ourselves to face and work through. Your pain is fuel for transformation. You cannot sit on the sidelines of your life and evolve. Transcendence doesn’t work that way.

Running from the storms of your life doesn’t heal you. Learning to dance in the rain is the only way to push through those storms and transform the experience. It’s a metaphor for life… in order to transcend the storm, you have to go through it, and know that just beyond the pain and drama, through it to the other side, the sun is always shining and waiting to embrace you. It can be no other way.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… doesn’t keep you safe.

It only provides you with a false sense of security.

It’s much easier for us to play in the superficial realm of life and never go deeper. We skim the surface of our consciousness and get stuck in the matrix playing out materiality and confusing it with progress.

Prioritizing material possessions as a symbol of success only keeps the true rewards of a “life well-lived” hidden from sight. The fact is that we are here to grow and evolve our souls, not get sucked into the vortex of materiality. The focus on material possessions as a means of seeking fulfillment only keeps us bound and trapped in lower karmic programming. It makes us a slave to our possessions. It doesn’t represent a true sense of abundance, which only comes from within, never outside you.

The truth is the deeper you go in your evolution, the darker it can get. Sometimes it’s hard to see the bottom. It doesn’t mean you’re going to drown; it only means there are shadows lurking beneath you that may need to be brought to the surface before you can get to the next level. Most people fear those depths. They fear going into that darkness because it’s painful to transmute. They prefer to stay in the shallow end where they feel safer. But the shallow end doesn’t keep you safe. It only makes the deep-end scarier.

At one point in our lives, we find ourself adrift in the deep-end without a raft. But once we are there and we have brought up to the surface our shadows, we find a serenity in the deep-end that we never knew possible. Fulfillment lies in the deep-end of life. Living in the shallow never gets you to the depths of yourself. You have to be willing to lose everything in order to gain more than you could have ever imagined. It’s called the dark night of the soul. That is the secret to personal fulfillment; it’s lies in the deep-end. How deep are you willing to go to find yourself?

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… you have to let them grow.

In life, expansion is key. You can’t get to the next level without moving through the level you’re in.

Progress in life is about embracing a feed forward system, not backwards. So in essence, you have to grow out of something, not hide from it. It has to be surmounted.

Expanding out of something means you have managed to rise above it and integrate its wisdom. It’s a feed forward of intelligent learning and it builds off the very problem you’ve struggled with.

Escaping your problems is akin to constricting and giving up, while allowing the problem to still exist. It may provide you with a momentary sense of relief, but since there’s been no expansion, the problem always comes back larger than life.

Expansion raises your vibration and escapism lowers it. You can’t get to a higher level by adopting a lower level strategy.

Problems cannot be escaped, they have to be expanded through. Expansion (transformation) is a higher vibrational game. It requires that you face the problem head on, surmount it, and use it as a springboard into higher levels of consciousness. Are you ready for expansion?

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… allows you to shed more light on the darkness.

Our planet has been going through some huge shifts in consciousness. We’ve been bombarded by higher dimensional light the last couple years and every human being processes that light very differently.

For those who have been on a conscious path of personal growth/spiritual evolution, that light comes in and immediately throws up any “lower dimensional patterning,” a.k.a. shadow work. The light shines light on the darkness and shows you what work still needs to be done.

If you are awake, you are continually purging your shadows and releasing negative emotions, karmic patterns, and addressing your life lessons. If you are NOT awake and conscious, you are getting agitated by that light and blaming others for your own shortcomings or perceived victimization.

Light is consciousness. Light is information. There is no hiding from the light. The light will show you who you really are and it is up to you what you do with it.

How have you used that light? Have you used it to shine the light on your own darkness so it can be brought to the surface and healed? Or have you used it to make others wrong and shine a false light onto a collective wound that espouses hate?

Newsflash, you cannot heal the collective until you have first healed your own ego-wounds, otherwise you will just project your own ego-distortion out into the collective and blame others for it’s presence.

The collective of humanity is a holographic projection of individual human souls. So in order to heal the collective wound of hate, we have to first shine the light on our own lack of self-love and lack of self-worth. It’s easier to blame others than it is to look in the mirror. But healing our own reflection is the only way we will ever heal the social trauma of humanity.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… all around us.

In our world today, we are in the process of a paradigm shift which makes it quite an intense time. The good thing is that we are moving to a much higher level of consciousness (a higher vibration/frequency). The bad thing is that this higher level of consciousness has a tendency to disrupt everything and every system around us that cannot hold the same high frequency. Whatever is discordant around us is now disintegrating right in front of us.

When consciousness lifts, it rattles everyone and everything that is sitting at a lower vibrational rate of consciousness. This is why we have seen so much personal and global chaos this past year. But like anything else, we always have the choice as to what we focus on. If you focus on the drama and fear it/feed it, you will perpetuate more of it in the world, but if you focus on understanding that the drama is just playing out as a consequence of better days to come, you become empowered to make new choices and help to shift the energy.

You get what you think about whether you want it or not. Keep shifting your perspective. Stay aware and empowered to bring more light to the planet but do not feed the chaos. A much brighter world is dawning. Are you ready?

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… get ready to write some new rules.

The energy of 2020 is unlike any we have ever experienced. Consciousness has lifted and paradigms have shifted all around us. It’s truly a new age and the dawn of a new way of being in the world. There’s no going back. The earth’s magnetic vibration has lifted and subsequently so has humanity’s.

We are no longer blinded to the endless cycles of matrix programming. We are awakening to our true power and recognizing that we are the ones we have been waiting for. Life isn’t an experience meant to be suffered through; it’s meant to be an exploration into experiencing our true essence — God itself.

In order to take advantage of these new energies, one simply has to believe in themselves and the power they hold to make change. If you believe in the limitations of the past, you will be trapped by them, but if you believe in your ability to create magic, you will be brought to a whole new level of wizardry.

Are you ready to truly shift your life? You can be, do or have anything you want, you just have to be able to have that clear 20/20 vision for yourself. If you can’t see it for yourself, you’ll never have it. Are you ready to play this new game? The rules are yours to write.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… but not mandatory, for growth.

The only constant we have in life is change. We are only here to grow through experiences and to learn who we really are which is aspects of the creator (God).

The nature of reality is change. As long as we are alive on this planet, our lives need to continually expand and evolve and transformation is a critical part of that growth.

Everyone wants to be transformed, but not everyone wants to do the work to transform an aspect of their life. Most prefer to stay stuck and stagnant in a situation that has outlived it’s purpose.

There are 2 ways in which as humans, we can transform. We can transform in a “good” way or a “bad” way. Good and bad are just human labels to describe a process of transformation; they are not realities.

The fact is that we are always in control of how we grow. In the “good” way, we can get out ahead of the curve and recognize that we are feeling stuck/stagnant in our lives and push ourselves outside our comfort zone to make some sort of change.

But many of us tend to evolve and transform in a “bad” way which is awaiting the universe to come from behind us and push us outside our comfort zone via a crisis which undoubtedly pushes us towards transformation. 

Either way, you will transform — either on your timeline or the universe’s. Crisis are critical, but not mandatory. How do you choose to evolve?

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… the universe will take it from you.

Not to punish you, but to push you forward.

You can only hold onto what’s not serving you for so long before the universe intervenes and takes it right away from you.

We are only here to learn and grow through the wisdom of experience. So experiences are crucial to our development. If you find yourself feeling stuck, stagnant, and/or holding onto a job or a relationship passed the expiration date, know that the universe will gladly come in to rebalance your scales and force you forward once again.

The only constant in our lives is change. As humans, we naturally shy away from change but it’s our life force. Honor the cycles of change in your life and give what is no longer working up to a new cycle of growth. Holding onto what has you stuck, will keep you there. Letting it go will free you to move forward. When you learn to let go of what is no longer serving you, it opens you up to the rhythm of life where a better future is guaranteed.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

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… move with it or it’ll take you out.

Life is in constant motion, shifting and changing. As humans, we have to move with those changes, we cannot resist them. Resisting change is akin to back pedaling through our lives.

In life, always remain fluid. Move like the waters, yet be aware when the tide is changing and act accordingly. Your life is not a constant, it ebbs and flows in cycles and the more conscious you are, the better you are at anticipating those shifts in the tide.

Life is about flowing with the currents, observing the energy and respecting the direction in which it wants to move. If the tide is moving in a certain direction, heed it, life is guiding you towards more tranquil waters.

Respect the cycles of your relationships and jobs — nothing stays the same. Learn to identify the changes in the tides so you don’t get stuck somewhere you don’t want to be.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Book, “Life Lessons,” click here.

Read more inspiration in Donnalynn’s Weekly Column at the NY OBSERVER, click here.

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